tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221471234934593679.post6251100428249677790..comments2023-10-01T06:26:23.652-04:00Comments on Word Mama: My baby. My sweet angel baby,wordmamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06944054280970181055noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221471234934593679.post-80398938636231288762008-07-17T07:01:00.000-04:002008-07-17T07:01:00.000-04:00I do have such wonderful friends. Thank you Amy a...I do have such wonderful friends. Thank you Amy and Barb.wordmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06944054280970181055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221471234934593679.post-40452093462683409662008-07-17T05:07:00.000-04:002008-07-17T05:07:00.000-04:00wWordMomma, from what I've read from you, you ...wWordMomma, from what I've read from you, you are a great Mom! And like ANOM said..."Does Hayden love you any less? Are you the most important person to him? "...<BR/>I don't want to shatter any 'hopes' for you...but my kids are 30'somethings....and I STILL think "what if's" "should haves"...yet they grew up to be totally loving & responsible adults. It's just a Mom thing, I recently, I talked to MY Mom about the same kinds of things...and she in her 80's still thinks those same things about us 4 kids and growing up.<BR/>Hayden will heal...and so will you Mom!<BR/>BarbThe W.O.W. factor!https://www.blogger.com/profile/18262478798908787803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221471234934593679.post-34345619153842279292008-07-15T13:21:00.000-04:002008-07-15T13:21:00.000-04:00Lucy I saw many times on Saturday how you just wan...Lucy I saw many times on Saturday how you just want to protect him, and this was just another time. That makes you a great mom, not a bad mom! FYI, when I was a little older Hayden's age I put my hand in a bicycle chain that my 4-yr old sister then pedalled (imagine my mom's guilt about that! I can still remember the panicked way she ran out of the kitchen to get me). One mashed hand and hospital visit later, and my hand works just fine. <BR/>AmyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221471234934593679.post-77219725153481216252008-07-15T12:59:00.000-04:002008-07-15T12:59:00.000-04:00You know, it's only through you guys, my family, t...You know, it's only through you guys, my family, that I'm still sane (relatively). Thank you, thank you for your supportive words. I know I can't begin to forgive myself until his hand is healed. But it means a lot that my family is behind me. Thank you!wordmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06944054280970181055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221471234934593679.post-27953432610936854962008-07-15T09:21:00.000-04:002008-07-15T09:21:00.000-04:00Would Hayden choose any other mummy? Does Hayden ...Would Hayden choose any other mummy? Does Hayden love you any less? Are you the most important person to him? You didn't do anything intentionally. You would lay down your life for that little guy. Its absolutely horrible seeing your child hurt and it doesn't matter how careful you are, accidents happen - and he's a boy - there are going to be lots of cuts and scrapes. Ben was the only one who had stitches. My heart hurts for you and Hayden but you truly are one of those one in a million mums, fun, animated, loving and always remember the words to songs. Its tough right now, but Hayden will be OK and nobody could love you more than your family and we will always be there for you. Time will heal not only his wounds but your heart.<BR/>I love you. <BR/>Muma MugsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221471234934593679.post-82679557332375053722008-07-15T08:44:00.000-04:002008-07-15T08:44:00.000-04:00Oh little Lu.....you need a boost and to know what...Oh little Lu.....you need a boost and to know what a truly, truly amazing, patient, caring, loving, teaching, and I could go on and on, Mummy you are to your beautiful baby boy and my precious nephew Hayden. My little man thinks his Si-Si is the absolute best and asks to go to your house daily. Know that I only wish I could be as animated, patient (yes, you have waaaaay more patience than I) and laid back as my precious little sister, I am truly envious. I think that guilt is just a part of being a Mum and we all have it at one time or another and it's natural...but NEVER doubt your true skill as his one of a kind Mummy....as I said sometimes I wish I was more like you. Of course things happen when he is with you, cause he is always with him Mummy so who else would it happen with! When my little dude fell a couple of weeks ago and I was holding to "leash" had the same feelings as I saw the gash on his face and the resulting black eyes, "I was right there" "Did I pull on the leash and make him fall"....guilt, guilt that you had anything to do with your child being hurt...part of Mummyhood...but hey only the Mummy love and cuddles will help them when they are hurt right :) Love you so much little sis, love big sis xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com